Saturday, August 18, 2012

High School Dances Part 2...

Write the invitation message in secret code or shrink it down and print it backwards on a piece of parchment paper, then put it in a capsule or cheap locket. Knock on her door dressed in a trench coat with gloves and sunglasses. Just ask for her, hand her the message, and leave.

Buy a cute stuffed animal and put the invitation on a license around the neck.

Buy a small gumball machine. Fill it with gumballs. Put letters on the gumballs with the invitation message -- one word for each color. Deliver the filled gumball machine and a roll of pennies.

Write the invitation message on the inside of a gum wrapper. Wrap the gum back up and tape it inside a small box full of newspaper. Put that box in a bigger box full of newspaper. Put that box in a bigger box full of newspaper...

Put the invitation message in a capsule and bake it into a cake. Decorate the cake with the message "Eat me today".

Create a cute flash animation and e-mail it to her.
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One girl gave back a gumball machine with about a hundred red and green gumballs. If the greens outnumbered the reds, her answer was yes. If the reds outnumbered the greens, it was no.
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Run a string all over the yard with one end at the door and the other asking her to the dance hoping she isn't "tied up" for the night of the dance. (or her room)

**Would also be fun to run the string all over the yard and have her follow it to find the question/answer **
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Make a puzzle that says: Girl: Will you promise me you'll be my date for Prom? Love, Boy

He broke up the puzzle, and mixed it in a container with Dove Promises chocolate candy, and left it on her porch with a note saying: Don't wait too long to put the pieces together.

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from http://www.lightplanet.com/mormons/dating/creative_ways_dance.html#


Creative Ways to ask a Girl to a Dance or Prom

Got a creative idea of your own? Send it to us to include on the site!
Let's face it, there are cool ways to a guy or girl to a prom, homecoming, or other dance and there are lame ways. Here's the lame way (don't do this):
"Hey, do ya' wanna go to a dance?"
"Sure. I guess so."
It's much more fun to invite or answer an invitation for a date creatively. It shows right off the bat that the evening is probably going to be fun. Here are some suggestions for asking a girl to prom in a creative way, but can also be used by girls to ask guys to dances or other dates as well. If you're the one being asked, be sure to check out our creative ways to answer page too.

Inflate Your Date's Ego
Write your date information on small slips of paper (time, place, date, type of dress, etc.) then slip each one into a different balloon. Inflate the balloons and tie them together with ribbon or make a bouquet out of them. Deliver to your date's house, classroom, or work.
Kid's Stuff
Borrow a remote control car from a younger sibbling or neighbor (or did yours out of the closet) and tape the invitation to it. Knock on your date's door and then hide. When your date answers the door, drive the car up and deliver the invitation.
Good Fortune
Slip the date information into a fortune cookie. You write it like a fortune cookie message (i.e. "You will have fun time in near future" on one side and "will you go to the prom with me?" on the other). Just get a small takeout box from a nearby Chinese restaurant and deliver it. You could also take your date out to Chinese food and work it out with the restaruant ahead of time to give your date the "prepared" fortune cookie (if you do it that way, you should have an unwrapped cookie for you too so it doesn't seem too obvious).
Treasure hunt
Scope out the girl or guy's yard and find three to five hiding places for messages. Map it out and be creative in how many steps and what kind of steps to take from place to place. Leave a piece of candy and a "good job" note at all but the last place. Leave the the invitation at the last one. You can make the map look like a treasure map and write something on it like "Follow this map. Your Friday night may depend on it." [tips on making a treasure map]
Go Fish!
Leave several goldfish in a small aquarium or in her/his bathtub. Leave a note saying, "Of all the fish in the sea, I chose you to..." (Go to the Prom, spend my Friday night with, etc.)
A Piece of Cake
Wrap the invitation in aluminum foil and bake it in a cake. Put a clue in writing (in frosting) on the cake so they eat it quickly and find the invitation on time.
Don't Be Cold
Put the invitation in an ice cube. The message could say, "Please don't leave me out in the cold. Say that you'll go out with me to homecoming/prom/whatever" or "It would be really cool if you'd go with me to..." You could also put the message on a popsicle.
S-p-e-l-l i-t o-u-t
Spell out the invitation using plastic knives and forks poked into your date's lawn. Leave a picture so your date knows who it is from.
Use Alpha Bits Cereal or alphabet pasta to write out the invitation.
Adoring Kisses
Put Hershey's Kisses all over the front doorway of their house. Leave a note that says, "Now that I've kissed the ground you walk on, will you go do [homecoming/prom/etc.] with me?"
Candy Bar Poster
Sugar Daddy, Please don't Snicker. Will you like to go out with me to ____. I always wanted to go with you, since you're such a BIG HUNK. Love, Your Sugar Baby. (Or make up your own message. Some good candies to use: Oh! Henry, Nerds, Zero, Chuckles, Milky Way, M & M's, Mars, Mamba, Skor, Lifesavers, Sweetarts, Almond Joy, Mounds, Hot Tamales, etc.)
Piñata
Put the question in a piñata with lots of candy.
Mission: Impossible
Deliver a tape with this message, "Your date, should you choose to accept it, will be with ________ at _________ time on ________(day). You will be picked up by a person wearing ________. Your date will feel like s/he may self-destruct if you do not reply by ________."
10 Commandments
Have someone dressed up like Moses deliver the invitation worded like the 10 commandments--e.g. Thou shalt have no other dates before me, Thou shalt be ready at 7 pm on the 23rd of May, 1999, etc. (To answer this invitation, you could make a pan of Red JELL-O with the answer at the bottom in the middle--so that the person would have to part the "Red Sea.")
Wanted: Alive
Make posters around the school, neighborhood, or home of your date that has his picture on it. Offer a reward to him when he comes to your house. Dress up like a sheriff when you ask him.
Fatal Attraction
Draw a chalk outline of yourself outside the person's house. Then leave a note with your name and all of the information on it that says, "I'd die to go to ________ with you."
You're Eggstra Special!
Put the invitation cut into strips in plastic Easter eggs.
In the Still of the Night
Serenade under one of their windows. Make up new words to a song you and your friends know. The new words give the information about the date. For example, new words for "In the Still of the Night." "Come with me, Friday night. Seven o'clock until midnight. Dinner first, then a dance. Come on baby. Give me a chance. Come with me Friday night (Come with me Friday night-----)"
Come Fly With Me
Write the invitation like an airplane itinerary and deliver with a bag or peanuts or pretzels and an toy airplane.
String them Along
Tie a long piece of string to their front door. Tape messages along the string such as, "I'm not just stringing you along. Keep going" until they reach the location where you left your answer. Or give your answer in pieces along the way.
Just have ELVIS to it
Go somewhere where you know they are dressed up like a bag lady, a polka king, Elvis, a hippie, a mother in her bathrobe and curlers with a lunch box, or some other embarrassing costume and ask them out like that in front of everyone.
Make carrot cake or carrot-shaped cookies with a message, "Somebunny wants you to __________ with them. If you carrot all, you'll say yes."

High School Dances

I know, I know, I have basically given up blogging....but I need a place to compile ideas for asking to dances and dates and such for my boys, so here I am again.

Cute "Crime Scene" Invitation  "I would die to go to prom with you" at http://thebakerfam.blogspot.com/2010/09/late-way-late-1230ish-am-last-night.html
and the answer at::
http://thebakerfam.blogspot.com/2010/09/answer-you-have-all-been-dying-for.html

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These are from the comments of this post How Does She


Kate says:
I have so many, I don’t even know where to start.
1. I decorated a guys room with cut out stars and said something like “Our fate is in the stars, will you go to the dance with me”. He looked at each and every star, but my name was actually spelled out in glow in the dark stars on his ceiling (got his mom’s permission).
2. To answer, got a bunch of helium pink ballons and put pig faces on them. Put them all in a box and left a note that said “I’ll go to the dance with you when pigs fly”. This almost back fired because the guy was so upset by the note, he didn’t open the box to let the “pigs fly”, until I called and told him to open the box. Could possibly alter this to ask.
3. I got a whole bunch of fortune cookies and said “I would consider myself fortuneate if you would go to the dance with me” and stuck my name in one of the cookies.
4. Got a bowl of Swedish fish and a note that said “Of all the fish in the sea, you are the only one for me. Will you go to the dance with me”. The guy dug through the fish forever looking for my name, I showed up later holding a goldfish.

Please don’t ‘snicker’ when I ‘pop’ the question. “Will you go to the dance with me?” Snickers candy bars with helium balloons. Pop the balloons to find the name or letters of the name.
“Me and You make a good combination. Will you go to the dance with me?” A mailbox locked with a combination lock given with a paper with hundreds of different combinations.
Here’s one I heard of once that sounded kind of fun:
Decorate under her bed. Lots of confetti, balloons, flowers, whatever… and a note asking her to the dance. And then, set an alarm clock to go off at, like, 3am.
Or, the old standby: A trail of Hershey’s kisses from the door to her bedroom… ‘Now that I’ve kissed the ground you walk on, will you go to the dance with me?’

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These ones involved boyfriends, so they were a little more work and I don’t know how they would go over with “just anyone”.
5. My boyfriend got 11 garbage bags of shredded paper (his mom worked for the state) and filled my car while I was at work. In the bottom of my car was a present with his name in it (I was less than pleased about the mess). To get back at him I got 10 pounds of M&Ms (the big peanut ones) and took three and wrote “Y-E-S” but I also grabbed 2 and put “N” on them (just to freak him out). He spent a week looking on the front and back of every single one. He finally gave up and asked my answer after his family ate a bunch.
6. Another boyfriend sent me on a scavenger hunt during school. He got a deck of playing cards and took out all the hearts cards. He put a rose, a heart playing card, and a note with a poem and instructions of where to go next for each card in 12 different classrooms (with permission from the teachers). At the end he was holding the Ace of Hearts card with another dozen roses and a group of guys from the show choir there to sing “Unchained Melody”. Since I had inturupted 12 classes and was walking around with 2 dozen roses, I was quite a sight, but it was pretty awesome.
7. Another guy got a whole bunch of ballons and filled them with paper and put them in my room. I had to pop dozens of balloons and looks on tons of paper to find his name.
8. Another time a guy got 10 bags of hugs and kisses and scattered them all over my room (my mom approved ahead of time). His name was on the bottom of one of the kisses.
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Devony says:
So many great ones to share:
1. My friend and I got TONS of shredded paper (the long kind, not the confetti kind – we weren’t THAT mean!) and put it everywhere in her dates room. In his shoes, his pillowcase, his bed, etc. In all of the mess she his a card asking him to go to the dance with her.
2. Get a bag of hersheys kisses and scatter them in a path in their house to the shower. Then leave a rose and a note saying, “I’ll shower you with kisses if you’ll go to the dance with me!”
3. A note on cereal “Be my Lucky Charm at the dance this weekend?”
4. Put some pears and a bottle of honey in a basket. “We’d make the perfect pair at the dance. Will you be my honey?”
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  1. DE says:
    Love these ideas!
    Place some “sticky buns” in the back of a toy truck. Attach note that says, “I’d love to haul your buns to the dance”
    Give a box of Honeycomb cereal with a note saying, “Honey comb your hair and let’s go to the dance!” Put name inside box.
  2. Phannie says:
    When I was in High School I took a dozen Krispy Kreme Donuts with a note that said, “I would go Nuts if you would go to the dance with me.”
    He responded with a box of donut holes and said, “I wouldn’t be ‘whole’ if I didn’t go with you.”
  3. Jennifer says:
    I used the “Golden Ticket” from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. I made up a golden ticket asking him to the dance and wrapped it around a caramilk bar.
  4. Brenda says:
    I was working at a law firm when one of my little brothers was in High School. To ask a girl to one of the dances, I created an official lookings summons. I had the plaintiff as the girl he was asking and I put my brother as the judge. The summons said that she was requested to appear before the Honorable Judge (Name of person asking) on the date and time of the dance. My brother then had a Police Officer deliver it to her door one evening.
    Now, I grew up in a small town where you pretty much know everybody, so of course we knew the police officers and it was easy to ask one of them to do it.
  5. Story Lady says:
    This has already been mentioned, but I was sent on a scavenger hunt once and I LOVED it! It was so much fun!
    A few years ago, a cute boy in our high school asked his girl friend to prom by filling a Wheelbarrow full of Little Debbie’s Honey Buns. He put it in front of the school (or in the front lobby, can’t remember which) with a big sign that said something along the lines of “Ashley, be my Honey Bun at Prom.”
    All of the girls just DIED over it and he was the most popular guy in school for the rest of the year.
    Good luck to him! You’ll have to tell us how he ends up asking her!
    .-= Story Lady´s last blog ..Wild Sunflowers =-.
  6. Nickelle says:
    I once asked a really cute guy (…he was like the “Mc Dreamy” of the school….) that I barely new (I was so scared!) to a dance with a real Ticket from a Police officer.
    I knew the cop & asked him if he would let me fill out the ticket & asked him to deliver it to his house in his cop car.
    I don’t remember everything I wrote…That was like 10+ years ago… anyways, something to the effect of you make my heart race — therefore you’re getting a “Speeding Ticket”… He was one of those guys that was like “perfect”… a very good, clean cut guy… if you know what I mean & he was SOOOO Embaressed & very Surprised about the cop showing up at his door! — so were His neighbor’s!!
    It was Classic & he said he would Never forget it! :o )
    I got asked by a phone book… chase. The guy sent me to all different kinds of pages in the phone book to spell some words & some words were like in the business name, he would tell me what page number to go to for the next clue & so on. It took forever! — I ended up doing it back to another boy that I asked to a different dance, it took him like an hour! :o )

    Beth says:
    A creative request and a creative response is expected and the norm at our sons’ high school as well. The response usually falls in with the theme of the request.
    I have crafted poems for each of them and made sterling bracelets to fit the theme (Fire and Ice Dance had a snowflake charm on a cuff name bracelet, and Homecoming Dance had school nickname spelled out in letter cubes with an RHS charm). Both poems written matched the themes.
    My son decorated the lawn of a girl with a very Irish first and last name with little plastic leprechauns and left a pot of chocolate coins on her doorstep with the invitation. She responded with a French flag on which she had written “Oui! Oui! Prom would be the Bomb!” and had the his French teacher hand it to him in French class.
    Others I’ve heard about are PROM? spelled out in golf balls for a girl on the golf team at the clubhouse with the invitation on the golfcart that drove by her. She responded with YES! in tennis balls on his front lawn. Needless to say he was on the tennis team. Both where thrilled with the balls, too!
    My older son’s friends have baked cakes with the invitation on top and inside, purchased a giant chocolate chip cookie with the invitation in icing, given a soccer ball (to a soccer player) with the invitation written on it, the only fish in the sea idea but with goldfish crackers, etc.

    Tara says:
    I didn’t read through all of them, but my favorite is still……You give the person that you are asking lots of different butters. Peanut Butter, Honey Butter, regular butter, Almond Butter you get the point. Then after he has all the butters you give him a loaf of bread and say “Now that I’ve buttered you up will you go to the dance with me?”

    ERiCA says:
    When I was in high school I asked this one boy by cutting out hundreds of letter P’s and putting them all over his room (ceiling, walls, etc.) And I put a little note on his bed that said I was so excited to ask you to the dance that I P’d all over your room. I had the letters of my name on the P’s (not on every single one, just enough to spell my name).
    He responded by giving me a plant wrapped in a diaper that said I was so excited that you asked me to the dance that I wet my plants. He was going to answer me by sending me a pair of his pants saying: I was so excited that you asked me to the dance that I shipped my pants.

    Lara says:
    shell, look at Rachel’s facebook pictures. The Senior Year album. She has pictures of how she got asked and answered a boy to homecoming. It is so gross. He bought a cow heart.. from where? I have no idea? But He put inside of it a little piece of paper with his name on it and sewed the heart back up. He said “I would heart {cow heart} to go to homecoming with you.” so she had to cut open the heart and find his name! SICK!
    She answered him by destroying his room with confetti and said “when you asked me my heart exploded into a million little pieces” then she had a puzzle in balloons that were also full of confetti. The puzzle said “look on your front porch. Then there was a poster that said “Not really.. my heart did explode.. only I vomited up the answer first. We made a fake bucket of vomit.. it was really nasty looking and smelled horrible. And she put a yes inside there. It was so funny.
    I have so many good ones.
    You can make a crime scene with caution tape, and get a sheet of painters plastic and trace someone’s body on it. Put that on the floor. Then throw clothes everywhere and make the room a mess. Then leave a poster saying “I would DIE to go to _______ with you. – name” That was my favorite way of being asked. It was so creative.

    1. GraphicMania says:
      for a fun, and longer lasting asking/answering experience fill a heart shaped cake pan half full of distilled water (to make it clear)! While freezing, cut out a red heart, write your message (my heart would melt if you would go to the dance with me) or (you melted my heart! of course i’ll go!) Laminate the heart cut it up like a puzzle and place onto the frozen heart! freeze the next half so that the note is suspended inside! Place on front porch, ring the door bell! AND RUN! Enjoy!
    2. Salena says:
      I was asked once this way and it drove me nuts:
      I found a 5 lb. bag of flour on my doorstep with a note that said: Will you go to homecoming with me? My name is in the flour.
      The flour bag had clearly been opened and taped shut.
      With my best friend we tore through the flour bag and after 3 hours of sifting and resifting and making a TOTAL DISASTER of the kitchen we swore that we lost the name somewhere but decided it was late enough and went to bed. The next morning I found a rose on my doorstep that said:
      Oops sorry! Wrong flower and his name was stuck between the petals!
      I was really frustrated but it was super cute!!
      Also, my husband is pretty darn romantic and proposed with a real GLASS SLIPPER!! Oh how I love him!!
      Jessica says:
      Here are two of my very favorite ways that I’ve been asked to dances.
      1) The guys left a newspaper on my front doorstep with a note that said “please check out the wanted ads” He had typed up a wanted ad and pasted it in there. with things like “Wanted: A cute and sophisticated, breathtakingly gorgeous girl. Must have a great sense of humor, enjoy fancy dinners, limo rides, and beautiful flowers. A must, her name must start with a J and end with essica.”
      It was definitely a self esteem booster and I thought a unique way to ask.
      2. The second guy decorated under my bed with flowers, chocolate, confetti and such and set an alarm clock for 2:00am. He left a note on the alarm that said, “Don’t be ‘alarmed’ this isn’t a bomb. I just wanted to know if you’ll go with me to prom!-David”


      MessyMissy says:
      Here’s a poem (I credit it to Shel Silverstein) along that same theme that I am SURE you could do something with:
      Do you carrot at all for me?
      My heart beets for you,
      With your turnip nose
      And your radish face.
      You are a peach.
      If we cantaloupe,
      Lettuce marry.
      Weed make a swell pear.

      Becca O. says:
      Put a candle on top of a box of life cereal with a note- “It would LIGHT up my LIFE if you’d go to homecoming with me!”

      McKenzie says:
      a couple I have asked with, been asked by, or helped a friend with!
      1. To ask, the boy bought 34 goldfish (all that goldish color) and 1 white goldfish. He filled my bathtub up with water and stuck them in there. Then he wrote on the mirror, “Of all the fish in the sea, would you go to commencement with me?”
      2. To answer back, we filled his bathtub with water and put 34 rubber ducks (yellow) and one pink rubber duck in there. Then on his mirror we wrote, “Of all the ducks on the lake, I’m so glad you chose me to take!! Yes!”
      3. To ask a guy to a girls choice dance, I decorated his room with gold and black streamers and balloons and a giant trophy… 4ft tall to be exact… (Got it at DI, a thrift store). Then i put up 2 black posters with gold writing that said, “I’d feel like I’d won first place…” that was on his door. The other was taped to the trophy in his room that said, “If you go to Sadie’s with me!” I left letters to my name scattered all around his room so he had to find them and unscramble them.
      4. To answer, he left the trophy standing up on my car (I wasn’t happy to see that thing again! It was HEAVY) and left a poster saying, “I’d feel like a loser if I missed this opportunity!” With picts of football players and basketball players sitting on the ground like “losers”
      5. For another girls choice dance, I painted a poster that said on one side, “I’ll go to the dance with you” then on the other, “When pigs fly!”. I cut it up into about 15 pieces and gave them to people to give to him randomly throughout the day, teachers to give them to him, randomly on the wall for him to find, lunch ladies to give to him, I even asked the resource officer to call him into his office to make it sound like he was in trouble, but he really just gave him another piece to the puzzle. The best part? When he put it all together, NOTHING HAPPENED! No pigs flew :) Of course I was going to say yes though! I knew he was going to be at work until about 11pm, so I left a giant box on his doorstep for when he came home (it had pink balloons in it with pig faces drawn on them) I had taped it up so it just looked like a normal box that UPS or FedEx would drop off, so apparently he just stuck it inside the door for his mom to find, but never opened it! Finally a few days later his mom told him to open it and he found them.
      6. To answer back, he came to my house around 1 or 2 am and started throwing little pebbles at my window (romantic, I know! good thing he was my boyfriend!) When I came to the window he started singing a cheesy song he had made up to the tune of, “call me maybe”. I don’t remember the exact lyrics, but it was so cute!
      7. For my friend to answer her date back to the dance, we kidnapped him at six in the morning, blind folded him, drove him around in a car for about a half hour so he was really confused, and brought him to her house. We sat him down at the table and when we uncovered his eyes there was a giant breakfast waiting for them. The server, (her mom)brought out pancakes and his had a giant “YES” in whipped cream.
      8. To help another friend, we made some vanilla pudding and put it in a large bowl with a laminated piece of paper that said YES somewhere in the middle of it. On top of the pudding we put an entire can of whipped cream. We gave it to him in the middle of class and made him tie his hands behind his back and eat it to find the answer. It was priceless.
      9. A way my friend got answered was the boy made A LOT of jello (5 gallons to be exact) and poured it all into a 5 gallon bucket. He laminated a piece of paper that said YES on it, and tied it to a dice with ribbon so it wouldn’t get too lost in there. (But it was dark green jello so you couldn’t see where it was at) Then he left it on her doorstep and ding dong ditched her.
      10. A way to answer back- This boy had a truck, so in his truck bed she left a bale of hay with a sign saying, “I promise not to BALE on you! Of course I’ll go!”